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Karen Lyn
Erdmann
Sep 29, 1984 — Jun 8, 2026
Tulsa, Oklahoma
Karen Lyn Erdmann (Standingwater), a gifted and artistic individual known for her vibrant personality and dedication to her passions, passed away on June 8, 2026, in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Born on September 29, 1984, in Claremore, Oklahoma, Karen lived a life enriched by her varied interests and the enduring love of her family.
Throughout her formative years, Karen showcased remarkable musical talent. She was a drum major and an active member of both her high school's jazz band as well as the college band at Northeastern State University (NSU), where she played the saxophone. These pursuits reflected her deep commitment to music, a lifelong passion that she carried into many aspects of her life.
Karen received a bachelor’s degree in psychology from Northeastern State University and a master’s degree in human relations with a certificate in Human Resource Diversity and Development from the University of Oklahoma. She cared deeply for others and loved to help people.
Karen’s hobbies were as diverse as they were meaningful. She found joy in playing music, singing karaoke, beading, creating costumes and enjoying Comic-Con, activities that spoke to her creativity and artistic flair. Her interests also included a love for softball and powderpuff football, engaging with friends and family. Additionally, she enjoyed watching movies and was an avid supporter of the Boston Red Sox.
Karen’s family was central to her existence and happiness. She is survived by her loving husband, Kyle Erdmann of the home, and their five children: Declan, Fenix, Samantha, Calliope, and Jocelyn. Her devotion to her family extended to her mother, Louella Spottedwolf of Salina, OK, and her sisters, Lisa Haag and her husband Rick of Salina, OK and Crystal Simpson and her husband Lance of Salina, OK, along with numerous nieces and nephews who were cherished parts of her life.
She was preceded in death by her father, David Standingwater, and her brother, Aaron Standingwater. Despite these profound losses, Karen’s spirit and impact reverberated through everyone she touched.
Karen Lyn Erdmann’s legacy is one marked by talent, creativity, and a profound love for her family and community. Her presence will be deeply missed, but her memory will continue to inspire those who knew her.
Funeral services will be held at 2:00 p.m., Monday, June 15, 2026, in the Shipman’s Funeral Home Chapel. Interment will follow in the Little Rock Indian Cemetery with Meredith Bear, Nicholas Standingwater, Richard Haag, III, Jerrod Haag, Blake Richards, and Ryan Erdmann serving as casket bearers. A visitation will be held from 5:00 p.m. until 7:00 p.m., Sunday, June 14, 2026, at Shipman’s Funeral Home in Pryor. To leave a personal message, please visit her guestbook at www.shipmansfuneralhome.com. Arrangements are under the direction of Shipman’s Funeral & Cremation Service
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