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Parcy Budder

December 24, 1969 — August 12, 2023


Parcy Budder, 53, born on December 24, 1969, in Claremore, Oklahoma, to Stanley Budder Sr. and Lorene (Whittington) Budder, passed away at his home in Jay, Oklahoma on Saturday, August 12, 2023. From a young age, Parcy embraced life's simple pleasures and found joy in every moment. He had a deep love for the outdoors and was often found gigging or playing softball. However, Parcy's greatest source of happiness was spending time with his family. He adored his grandkids, nieces, and nephews and made every effort to create lifelong memories with them. Exploring the creek together brought immeasurable delight to Parcy and those he loved. He enjoyed watching football, especially when it came to Tom Brady, the Patriots, and OU. 

Parcy is survived by his wife Lisa Cochran-Budder of Kansas, OK; son Ashton Budder of Kenwood, OK; daughter Bridgette Budder of Tahlequah, OK; brother Leroy Leaf of Salina, OK; sisters Sharon Proctor of Colcord, OK, Carolyn Chumwalooky of Kenwood, OK,  Sheila Thomas and husband Brandon of Pryor, OK, and Briana Lamb and husband Keith of Kenwood; along with five grandchildren, Rylin Budder, Carter Budder, Elijay Ray Sands, Avery Jonah Caughman, and Phoenix Layleigh Ryan.

He is preceded in death by his parents, Stanley and Lorene Budder; brother, Fred Leaf; sister, Melissa "Missy" Budder-Davis; paternal grandparents, Ned and Nellie (Scott) Budder; and maternal grandparents, Elwood Whittington and Arlene (Levi) Sac. 

Parcy's legacy is one of love, laughter, and a zest for life. Though he may be physically gone, the memory of Parcy will forever be alive in the hearts of all who loved and admired him.

A funeral service for Parcy will be held at 10:00 a.m., Tuesday, August 22, 2023, at Blue Springs Church in Salina, with Reverend Lorne Beck officiating. Burial will take place at the Little Rock Indian Cemetery near Locust Grove with Nate Peters, Eli Sands, Avery Caughman, Allen “Boo” Davis, Mark Loco, and Daryl Budder serving as casket bearers. Honorary casket bearers include Virgil Dry, Johnson Sanders, Rylin Budder, Carter Budder, Dustin Dry, Brad Davis, Paul Leaf, Keith Lamb, Brandon Thomas, Dink Cummings, and Brian Proctor. A visitation will be held from 6:00 p.m. until 8:00 p.m., Monday, August 21, 2023, in the Shipman's Funeral Home Chapel in Pryor. To leave his family a personal message, please visit his online guestbook at Arrangements are under the direction of Shipman’s Funeral & Cremation Service of Pryor.

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Service Schedule

Past Services


Monday, August 21, 2023

6:00 - 8:00 pm (Central time)

Shipman's Funeral & Cremation Center

1204 N. E. 1st St., Pryor, OK 74362

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Funeral Service

Tuesday, August 22, 2023

10:00 - 11:00 am (Central time)

Blue Springs Church

4378 OK-82, Salina, OK 74365

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Tuesday, August 22, 2023

11:15 - 11:30 am (Central time)

Little Rock Indian Cemetery

6339 S 444 Rd, Locust Grove, OK 74352

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